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"Goes down like a dirgeful beach read." -Harper's Magazine
"I almost died laughing." -ROZ CHAST
"My own departure would not be so bad if only Mr. Roberts could write the obit!" -KAI BIRD
From celebrated New York Times obituarist Sam Roberts, the art of the obit: Who we remember, how we forget, and where we find the true meaning in a life.
After nearly a decade behind the obituaries desk at the paper of record, Roberts knows obits aren't really about deaths. In fact, they usually only mention dying once. Over the course of the nearly 1,500 obituaries he has written throughout his career, he has instead come to understand that they're about distilling an entire life lived-for someone whose name he may have learned that morning.
In Are They Dead Yet?, Roberts explores the major questions that arise from the task of producing a succinct yet record-defining account of a life. Who deserves an obituary, and how do we decide who gets one? How does an obituarist choose what to include-and to omit? What happens when embarrassing information, like a crime, affair, or wonky cause of death, makes itself known? What makes a legacy, a claim to fame? And what happens when that claim to fame, so important in death, isn't what mattered in life at all?
With wit, wisdom, and behind-the-scenes intrigue, Roberts examines the practice of writing advance obituaries, of which there are more than 2,000 on hold and regularly updated at the New York Times, America's relationship to death in the wake of 9/11 and the pandemic, classic euphemistic language, and more. Through it all, Roberts brings his humor, shrewdness, and experience to prove what he has learned from a long career in death: There's no such thing as an ordinary life.
Product details
| Published | Aug 11 2026 |
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| Format | Hardback |
| Edition | 1st |
| Pages | 288 |
| ISBN | 9781639733651 |
| Imprint | Bloomsbury Publishing |
| Dimensions | 210 x 140 mm |
| Publisher | Bloomsbury Publishing |
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Reviews
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As a one-stop history, etiquette guide, and miscellany, Are They Dead Yet? goes down like a dirgeful beach read.
Harper's Magazine
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A charmingly digressive history, part-time how-to and all-around appreciation of newspaper death notices, from a master of the form.
The Chicago Tribune
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Utterly delightful . . . Part memoir, part history, and wholly wonderful.
Air Mail, Editors' Choice
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“Delightful... Obituary-writing is a serious occupation but, surprisingly, it also has its lighter moments. Roberts captures these and pays warm-hearted tribute to his fellow obituarists as well as their deserving (and sometimes undeserving) subjects. He is a genial...guide through the complexities of the genre.
Jewish Book Council
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A multifaceted look at the history and evolution of the obituary, and, as a byproduct, the daily newspaper industry... One of the pleasures in reading Roberts' book is the plethora of snippets from memorable obituaries by Roberts himself, as well as others.
Atlanta Journal Constitution
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Delightful... Roberts is one of America's most accomplished obituary writers, he is uniquely qualified to introduce readers to the language of death that has long permeated the newspaper business... Are They Dead Yet? serves as both a history lesson and a reminder of the traditions that shaped American journalism.
Steven Wenick, On Point





















